REALTALK: No amount of HOT sex will make a man LOVE YOU

By D Sarkozy

MATURE AUDIENCE REALTALK: If talking about sex causes you to be offended don’t read this post. This is real talk that needs to be addressed so that critical mistakes can be avoided.

One of the greatest mistakes any woman can make is when she truly believes that opening her legs will make a man open his heart. No amount of sex will make a man love you. He will desire you, have passion for you, he may even crave you but its lust in his groin that is driving him. Not love in his heart drawing him.

Just because he says he loves you in the moment of ejaculating his seed doesn’t make it sincere. In the heat of passion words come forth from the fleshly passion of the moment. It is one of the saddest things to see a woman prepare for a wedding that will never come off.

There are women that truly believe that using their body as enticement captures the mind and heart of a man and if she gives him good uninhibited sex that he will want to marry her because she makes him sweat and grunt.

Women I can assure you that men will take you to bed and even get you pregnant but it will not make him love you. Get this, he will even marry you because you have his child inside you but he will not give his love to you. It is a battle to get women to understand that they don’t have to give themselves sexually to a man to get a marriage proposal.

So many are having sex outside of marriage because of desperation in wanting to be married. They have taken down in their values and begin to pimp their own selves out to men for a different last name and a ring.

Am praying for the women that they understand that sex cannot be used as a bargaining tool to get a ring and marriage license. Women please wait on God with all your clothes on and legs close. You need more than the man’s body to truly have a marriage.

DFS

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